But I don't understand voltage and amperage as well as I need to to make proper use of your efforts.
Use the water analogy
Volts is the "pressure" of the water
Current is "how much water is flowing"
Resistance is "size of the pipe" (lower resistance = larger pipe)
V = RI
For a given water pressure (voltage), by varying the pipe size (resistance), you can change the "amount of flow" of water.
Think of that LED has a one way valve with a water wheel inside of it.
Your 12V battery is a water tank say 12 feet above the LED. Let the water flow downwards and start spinning the water wheel (LED makes light). If the pipe is too large (not enough resistance), the water wheel spins out of controls and fails. Therefore, you need to limit the water flow by using resistance (or decreasing the size of the pipe to decrease size of flow)
hope this makes sense