I use nitrous valves from JEGS, ZEX, NOS or NX. You can pick them up used from EBay pretty often. " high flow' ZEX less than 75$. Having said that, when they have a sale or coupon at JEGS they are pretty reasonable. You can use a smaller 'purge valve' for the vent.
YOU SHOULD USE A SOLENOID SAVER on your circuit. I use a basic RC circuit for the solenoid valves. Sometimes the 'Bosch Relays' have capacitors in them, this is to protect the coil in the relay NOT to protect your NOS solenoid. These are typically designed for a short duty cycle and are cooled by the nitrous flowing in them.
Other than the cooked one, I have been using the same solenoids for over 10 years.
BTW Contrail is starting to sell VERY high flow solenoid valves.