As much as I'd love to move back to my native Texas it's out of the question. The climate where I grew up (SE Texas Piney Woods) is not arthritis friendly. Three of the other six geographical regions in the state are no better, and the other three just aren't appealing. The same problems occur in the various locales where my family members live.
Northern Utah would have been my next choice as my wife has many family members there. My wife doesn't want to move back there, though, despite the fact that we both dearly love the natural beauty of the Cache Valley. Too many sad memories, among other things.
There is really only one place that fits the majority of our requirements. I need somewhere that has a rocketry club, RC club and astronomy club. It also has to have a relatively moderate climate due to my arthritis. My wife needs someplace with decent job opportunities and where she can do the notarial and virtual assistant work she loves. Both of us require someplace that has a strong community of others of our faith, that has good medical care available, and that has a relatively low population density. After much searching I think I finally found the perfect place:
Boise, Idaho.
