I don't think any of us has been really happy with the way we built our own L1 birds.... If anyone is, I haven't met them.
I don't think any of this build is going into any kind of danger zone.... just little things here and there that will annoy you in a year.... Which, we all do, and still do. I've rebuilt something like 4 or 5 rockets exactly the same, but with bigger motor mounts on try 2.... And i still build with smaller mounts on new builds. Some people just have styles and ways of doing things.
I think people here at great at helpful advice... But at times over-act when it's ignored. Some lessons can only be taught by experience, and those experiences will shape each person's own journey in rocketry. The only goal we all share is safety.... other than that, we all build to different ends and purposes. My goal recently has been to share my experiences, and not act all crazy when others disagree with me. It's helping lower my BP some