Well, I just retired in August (still not sure how this all works!). But we've quoted flywheels (projects didn't get very far so we never got one) and were still actively working on synchronous condensers (regulating generators). Other than humongous capacitors, I don't know of any way to handle the VAR need without mechanical inertia - though I'm not an electrical engineer - maybe someone has found a safe and reasonable way to build humongous capacitors. Pumped storage is being built as fast as sites can be found. Criminee, some of the largest hydro generators in the country are regularly being blown down to run in air as synchronous condensers, and hydro generation is renewable as well! But the real load fluctuations are a problem as well, and, as you say, we've paid for it one way through gov't subsidies and now in increased conventional generation costs due to the load swings and VAR issue- and everyone sees the villain as fossil/nuclear, whereas you simply couldn't use wind/solar without them; and they think wind/solar are "free" when in fact it's far more complicated than that.