Orion14ed
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Guys, I need to vent.
I am a straight A student, never got in trouble, never had a note home, assignments in on time. Teachers love me. Well, yesterday, I recieved a detension. Now, you must do something pretty bad to do that? Right? Wrong.
Let me give you the situation. I am in art class, sitting down, working on my turkey drawing. (It was terrible btw) My friend sits down. I say hi and something else, she and I are then quite. I speak no more that class. Not even a word. The rest of the class gets loud, and then the teacher yells at us to get quite.
This is the good part. My "friend" ("" will be explained) is across the table. He has his paper over his head, and he shows it to me, and laughs, I laugh as well, because, it is a REALLY bad turkey. The teacher turns around and gives us detentions. I say I am sorry, but I do not know why I am getting one, she said I was talking. I tried to explain I was not. She would not hear it. I deserve to be punished she says.
Okay, so I guess laughing is wrong now. That is what I understood. I recieve my letter to my parents it says "Brendan, after being told not to talk, carried on laughing and talking with shawn." The letter itself was written with poor grammar, and incorrect spelling. That right off the bat gets me upset.
Lets pick it apart now... From what I have told you, please form an opinion and write it. Sorta like before I tell you my side, your point of view.
A. Being told not to speak.
The whole class was loud, I spoke at the start, a good 20 mins before this, and when she told ALL of us to stop I did. The only other thing I said was hi and thank you to my friend. She did warn the whole class many times, and I listened. But saying she told ME personally is simply not true.
B. Laughing and talking with Shawn
Shawn and I do not get along. He really dislikes me. I do not particularly enjoy his company as well. We spoke no time in the class, before or after we laughed. We do not like eachother, and do not get along. We respect that, and do not speak unless we must for projects and such. Saying we were talking is simply incorrect. "Carried on" implies that after a warning, which again, was not issued to me or him for speaking, because we did not, we continued to speak and laugh. We laughed for about 5-10 seconds. You know, your nominal "why...just why..." laugh. It was a bad drawing, and he was laughing at himself, he showed me, and we shared a fine giggle.
C. This is what gets me. I have no issue at all being punshed. If I do wrong, I know it, and am man enough to admit I screwed up and take what I have coming. In our school we have a system. First warning, not generalized, personal. "Brendan, be quite" Is an example. No such thing was recieved. Then, a stay in from lunch. Simple enough, you did something bad, but hey, its not that bad to need further action. Then, a note home meaning, you mocked the teacher, swore, ext. No such thing was given, nor was a stay in from lunch. Then it is a detention. You have to be pretty bad to get one of those. And trust me, I am a really good person. I try my best to stay out of trouble. Never got in any. I am loud however, and that can get me a "Brennndaaaannnn" once in a while, but other than that really nothing of the sort.
D. After I got out of art class, my 8th grade home room teacher had to give me the slip. She asked me and Shawn what we had done. We both said, we really don't know. After all, we just laughed. She gave us a look and said "Common, Really?" Him and I then said "I guessed we laughed, that was about it" She asked if we talked. I said "I never spoke to him, he never spoke to me. Am I incorrect?" He said "I said nothing to Brendan, he never spoke to me." She then gave us the Well... that is odd... this says you did... look. I got my slip. The slip I worked so hard never to get. For something in my opinion so stupid.
E.After art, my friend said "You got a detention? For what?" I said I really don't know. I was told by the girl that sat down above, that if I got one, she should have had it three times over. My mom after school walked in, and without saying a word, 2 kids in my class said "Brendan did nothing, he laughed, he should not get one". My point is, if I get this, then it should be given to everyone else as well. Even after I got it, people still were talking, with no punishment.
What is your point of view? I am really upset right now. I came home crying. I am a good student, teachers trust me. Never done anything wrong. I work really hard to do well, and to be a good person. Do I deserve this punishment? If I do, please give me a reason. I really have no idea what I did.
If this has happend to you, feel free to post it. An unfair accusation, you did not get the promotion because he thought you did something, ext.
I am going to argue this. With my mom. I have to serve it Monday. I go to a catholic school... (Don't start anything please. Not to think you would...) And if this would hurt my chance if I do go to a Catholic highschool, I would be really upset.
Sorry guys, but I had to "complain". Life just is not fair now is it...
I am a straight A student, never got in trouble, never had a note home, assignments in on time. Teachers love me. Well, yesterday, I recieved a detension. Now, you must do something pretty bad to do that? Right? Wrong.
Let me give you the situation. I am in art class, sitting down, working on my turkey drawing. (It was terrible btw) My friend sits down. I say hi and something else, she and I are then quite. I speak no more that class. Not even a word. The rest of the class gets loud, and then the teacher yells at us to get quite.
This is the good part. My "friend" ("" will be explained) is across the table. He has his paper over his head, and he shows it to me, and laughs, I laugh as well, because, it is a REALLY bad turkey. The teacher turns around and gives us detentions. I say I am sorry, but I do not know why I am getting one, she said I was talking. I tried to explain I was not. She would not hear it. I deserve to be punished she says.
Okay, so I guess laughing is wrong now. That is what I understood. I recieve my letter to my parents it says "Brendan, after being told not to talk, carried on laughing and talking with shawn." The letter itself was written with poor grammar, and incorrect spelling. That right off the bat gets me upset.
Lets pick it apart now... From what I have told you, please form an opinion and write it. Sorta like before I tell you my side, your point of view.
A. Being told not to speak.
The whole class was loud, I spoke at the start, a good 20 mins before this, and when she told ALL of us to stop I did. The only other thing I said was hi and thank you to my friend. She did warn the whole class many times, and I listened. But saying she told ME personally is simply not true.
B. Laughing and talking with Shawn
Shawn and I do not get along. He really dislikes me. I do not particularly enjoy his company as well. We spoke no time in the class, before or after we laughed. We do not like eachother, and do not get along. We respect that, and do not speak unless we must for projects and such. Saying we were talking is simply incorrect. "Carried on" implies that after a warning, which again, was not issued to me or him for speaking, because we did not, we continued to speak and laugh. We laughed for about 5-10 seconds. You know, your nominal "why...just why..." laugh. It was a bad drawing, and he was laughing at himself, he showed me, and we shared a fine giggle.
C. This is what gets me. I have no issue at all being punshed. If I do wrong, I know it, and am man enough to admit I screwed up and take what I have coming. In our school we have a system. First warning, not generalized, personal. "Brendan, be quite" Is an example. No such thing was recieved. Then, a stay in from lunch. Simple enough, you did something bad, but hey, its not that bad to need further action. Then, a note home meaning, you mocked the teacher, swore, ext. No such thing was given, nor was a stay in from lunch. Then it is a detention. You have to be pretty bad to get one of those. And trust me, I am a really good person. I try my best to stay out of trouble. Never got in any. I am loud however, and that can get me a "Brennndaaaannnn" once in a while, but other than that really nothing of the sort.
D. After I got out of art class, my 8th grade home room teacher had to give me the slip. She asked me and Shawn what we had done. We both said, we really don't know. After all, we just laughed. She gave us a look and said "Common, Really?" Him and I then said "I guessed we laughed, that was about it" She asked if we talked. I said "I never spoke to him, he never spoke to me. Am I incorrect?" He said "I said nothing to Brendan, he never spoke to me." She then gave us the Well... that is odd... this says you did... look. I got my slip. The slip I worked so hard never to get. For something in my opinion so stupid.
E.After art, my friend said "You got a detention? For what?" I said I really don't know. I was told by the girl that sat down above, that if I got one, she should have had it three times over. My mom after school walked in, and without saying a word, 2 kids in my class said "Brendan did nothing, he laughed, he should not get one". My point is, if I get this, then it should be given to everyone else as well. Even after I got it, people still were talking, with no punishment.
What is your point of view? I am really upset right now. I came home crying. I am a good student, teachers trust me. Never done anything wrong. I work really hard to do well, and to be a good person. Do I deserve this punishment? If I do, please give me a reason. I really have no idea what I did.
If this has happend to you, feel free to post it. An unfair accusation, you did not get the promotion because he thought you did something, ext.
I am going to argue this. With my mom. I have to serve it Monday. I go to a catholic school... (Don't start anything please. Not to think you would...) And if this would hurt my chance if I do go to a Catholic highschool, I would be really upset.
Sorry guys, but I had to "complain". Life just is not fair now is it...