The NCW-1 weight and the NCW-4 weight were different items. But I have a very hard time believing the zinc washer (NCW-4) weighs 3X as much as a lead disk (NCW-1) of slightly larger diameter and thickness.
If you go back and look at the Estes listing snippet, it says each NCW-1 lead disk weighs .12 Oz or 3.4 grams. Those lead disks were in a number of Estes kits including K-49 Sprint and K-41 Mercury Redstone which came with two that you stacked under the screw eye. They were approximately the same diameter as the shoulder on a BT-50 nose cone.
So with that said, an Estes disk is about 1/8 ounce, which really isn't much. I'd drill a couple of inches into the bottom of your balsa cone and add that length of 1/2" dowel. The glue and the dowel will easily make up the weight and the harder wood of the dowel will prevent the screw eye from pulling out. I do that to all my balsa nose rockets, new-builds and restorations. If you need a bunch of weight you can drill deeper, use epoxy and trap a fishing weight under the dowel.
Once you've done this once you'll do it always.