Any recommended music and photo sorting programs?

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I am trying to get fecally consolidates with multiple old PCs. As opposed to the days of yore, when you only had so many shots and a film cartridge and you had to PAY for each print or reprint, digital imaging makes getting images so easy, and transferring them or copying them so easy, that I have thousands, including lots of duplicate. Anybody have a program that they recommend for organizing digital photos and especially for straining out duplicates without saving ONE copy of originals? I won’t say, “money is no object,” but I would pay a decent price (say $50 to $100) for a good program.

Same for music, lots of files, lots of duplicates.

Thanks in advance.