I'd like to thank everyone who responded to this. I'm still relatively new to "going big," so this is definitely a learning experience. I'm pretty comfortable with the concept of drag separation, and the debate around it.
At this point, my main concern is the margin of deceleration force that the nose sees when the drogue is deployed. I really don't want the main pulling out at 10k ft. Obviously, drogue should deploy at or very shortly after apogee at low vertical velocity, harness is sufficiently long (planning on 40 ft). Nose is about 2 lbs fully loaded. Assuming everything goes perfect, it sees maybe 10-20 G at the end of the shock cord. In this case, 3x 2-56 pins (or 90-100 lbs or shear strength) is just fine. My question is what sort of margin would an experienced person add to account for when things don't go "perfect?" Obviously, there are degrees of imperfection, but what would a typical margin be? Reading some of the previous posts, 100 G is used sometimes, which seems excessive, and I've seen 20 G, which seems optimistic.
Thanks,
Andy