I have tried both retainer systems and I like them both.
I agree the Aeropack version can be a pain in the butt to install and get lined up properly, but one thing I do like about the Aeropack version is that the tailcone itself is reusable. I just have to install a less expensive retainer body on the next rocket. At one point, I bought one-each of all the Aeropack tailcone sizes on sale and I switch them around on a number of rockets.
The Slimline versions are way easier to install, but you have to buy one for each rocket you want to use it on. That can get pretty pricey over time.
If you are only going to use tailcones on a couple/few rockets, this price difference probably won't be a big deal. The break even point is about 2 rockets of similar size. Once you build that third one, the Slimline versions start to be more expensive.
I like aesthetics, but I am price conscious, so I can't afford to escalate the cost. If money is no issue for you, then Slimlines are the easy way to go.