Between the two options, the VG flight seems much more dynamic and 'thrill seeking', and in my mind, a lot more bang for your buck. The BO flight is more classic astronaut stuff, more of a taste of going to space in the classic 'spam in a can' mode. If offered, I'd take either trip, but the VG version sure seems a lot more exciting. Just being suspended from a huge mothership on the way up seems like a pretty cool ride to me.
If SpaceX ever does offer rides in the Starship, I have to believe that the landing will beat either of the above for sheer white-knuckled excitement, with everyone onboard holding their breath until landing. One of the consequences of their very public flight test program and the dramatic endings we've all seen.
Tony