I have to agree with JDCluster here, You are only trying to keep the nose cone from popping out during the drogue event basically. Your rocket is fairly light to boot. If your nose cone is most of the weight you may want to be thinking about higher strength fasteners but 18- 19 pounds for the total weight, I would use 2-56 nylon screws and only 2 of them on something that light. Actually one would be sufficient but the rule is use 2 at least so it will shear and come out straight from the air frame. One might jam if it starts to cock to one side as it ejects. I have rockets that weigh in excess of 45 pounds and only use 2/ 2-56 screws to hold the nose in place.
I am betting you will be around 1 to 1.5 grams of bp for a clean ejection depending on your compartment size. Ground testing is a must. If you send the NC all the way across your yard you may be a little on the high side with your charges
Three to four feet is pretty good, that way you will not be bouncing the NC back and through your shock cord as it deploys. It's like crocheting your rigging in flight and can make for some interesting recovery's :horse: