Simple. Take a look at the attached drawing. The area in read is where the hot gasses of motor firing leak. Notice how above the delay grain, there is no way the hot gasses can bypass the o-ring. Will, if the delay grain is inserted backwards, the hot gasses can leak between the dealy grain and spacer. Those gasses are hot enough to ignite black power... and the amount of powder in that area would give conciderable force witch may contribnit to blowing the top off the closure. One the gas finds the breach - the delay grain is quickly, almost instantly, consumed by the pressueres - and results in the rocket being roasted.