Not worried about weight at all, since I'm not trying for 25000 feet or anything like that. As I thought about the ISC being machined out of a solid block of aluminum, you're right, a 6" exposed cone and shoulder could weigh 7-8 lbs, but that's alright.
I am still scratching my head on how the ISC is going to get a hold of the back end of the motor. Maybe a 2"-3" piece of motor mount tube slid on as a spacer (since I'd like to fly the Tomach 54 by itself w/o the motor hanging out). But even then I'd have to build it up till it was a bigger OD that the rear closure with the knurled grip. And I'd have to add probably a a full lb of lead shot to the front nose cone to compensate....
Man, this is a challenge. Has anyone heard of anybody successfully two staging to a minimum diameter before? Jarvis? Anyone? Bueller?
First, forget the knurled rear closure with thrust ring. Not there. You will use a flush rear closure, no thrust ring. Thrust is transferred to the airframe thru the forward motor retainer. Basically, it's a bulkhead held inside the a/f with multiple radial screws, and the motor is screwed to that.
The ISC is a machined fit. The hole down the middle is ~3" deep, has a shoulder at the bottom, and receives the back end of the sustainer motor case. Looks a whole lot like the pics Jim and Landru posted.
As for flying single stage, move the internal retainer forward, and compensate with lengths of all-thread. Example... Single stage flight with long motor uses 1" piece of all-thread to anchor it to the motor retainer. Same case for two-stage configuration will use a 4" length of all-thread, leaving an extra 3" of motor to seat into the ISC.
Examples that used this type of coupling... The Google Team's 100K project that won the Carmack Prize. Same design, but I think their ISC was machined from Delrin.
There's another gent pretty much duplicating that project, only this time using a 98mm Mongoose and a 75mm Mongoose. And he has an aluminum ISC machined by yours truly, made from 6061 T-6.
And you don't want to over-compensate with nose weight until you check the CP/CG. Might not need as much nose weight as you think...