For the benefit of understanding what you are doing (and teaching the kid a good lesson as well). The idea of the nose weight is to move the center of gravity (CG) further forward to ensure that it remains in front of the center of pressure (CP). In general you want the CG to be about one body tube diameter forward of the CP. If the center of gravity is behind the center of pressure, the flight will be unstable.
There are many ways to determine where the Center of Pressure is located. The first would be to recreate the model in Open Rocket software. Once the model is built in the program, it will show you the CP location. The second (old school) method to locate the CP is to trace the rocket onto a piece of cardboard, cut it out, and the CP is the point where it balances.
Determining the CG location is as simple as seeing where the built rocket balances with a chute, wadding, and motor loaded into it as if it were about to fly. If the CG is not sufficiently forward of the CP than you will weight to the nose (the clay) until that distance is achieved.