From Bad to $#%%

Well just when you think life rough, it get harder.
Yesterday I had to put down my long time Friend "Lucee" my Doberman due to cancer. well the stress was hard on my wife, she started to spit up blood from her lungs. She had a small problem for a month on her breathing, BUT today it just got really bad, took her to the hospital and after a camera into the lung, finds she has Cancer too. Now thier wait till tommorrow for sample test to come back at around 11ish to plan the next step. Shes being held in a medical Coma till that time.

Just seems to be a major blow all at one time, and it hurts and I don't want to lose anymore.

Sorry for this , just stuck somewhere between Pissed and Crying and had to vent.

I am sorry about your dog, and hope that things get better very quickly for your wife. Too many times I get wrapped up in the little issues that make up life. I forget how important the people that you love really are. I will say a prayer for you and your wife, and hope that tomorrow you receive some encouraging news.

Holy $#!/ Hang in there. We'll all be pulling for your wife. Kind of trumps losing your dog but sad to hear that just the same.

Don,

I'm so sorry to hear about what you are going through. I can't begin to imagine how you feel and I don't want to try. My thoughts are with you and your wife and I hope everything works out well.

If you feel that it helps you to post here and let us know how things are going, we would appreciate it. If, however, you feel it's better for you and your wife for you not to post, that's okay, too. Obviously, whatever is best for you is the right thing for you to do.

-- Roger

No apologies necessary. It seems your plate has more on it than is your share.

Be strong. Even if only by putting one foot in front of the other. Your wife needs you now.

Oh man, I'm really sorry all this is happening to you. There is certainly nothing wrong with venting, and nothing wrong with expressing your emotions. There is no right or wrong way to deal with crisis, there is only YOUR way.

Our thoughts are with you in this time of grief and worry.

Vent away my friend. Lean into it and try your best to be positive. We're all here for you !!

LW Bercini said:

There is certainly nothing wrong with venting, and nothing wrong with expressing your emotions. There is no right or wrong way to deal with crisis, there is only YOUR way.

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You said that much better than I did.

-- Roger

dlb said:

Sorry for this , just stuck somewhere between Pissed and Crying and had to vent.

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No need to apologize. Vent all you want. I think folks here will understand.

Thoughts and prayers are with you.

-Dave

Don,
I am very sorry to hear this. I hope she gets better quickly :sad:




Braden

You and your wifes speedy recovery wiil be prayed for tonight by my wife as well as myself.

Hang in there, God only gives you what you can handle, Keep your head heald HIGH !

Tom and Heather

Don,

My wife, Bridgett, and I will pray for you and your wife. That is truly terrible news.


Chuck

Horrible, horrible news. Here is to a very speedy recovery.

Don;

My prayers are with you, your wife and your entire family. Should you ever feel the need to vent and do not want to in an open forum, PM, e-mail me or ask and I will give you my number and you can call me!

God Speed !

All thats been said in the other posts. Yell, scream,cry,pound your fist..whatever it takes. Hang in there....

Don, very sorry to hear of the news with your Lucee and wife! I admire you for being willing to share it with us. Although cyber communities like this cannot replace face to face interaction, it is nonetheless a kind of community. You and your family are certainly in our thoughts and prayers. Please keep up appraised as this goes on. Building rockets can be cathartic, perhaps? Venting, rants and other outbursts are welcomed here.

Don,

I am very saddened by your news. I too shall lift you and your house up in prayer.

Your friend,
Eric

All I can say is the same thing everyone else has...I'm one of those who never knows the right thing to say...

Sorry to hear about your recent misfortune. I hope things improve for you and your wife in short order.

Truly sorry to hear this aweful news.I shall indeed keep you both in my thoughts through these times.

Sincerely yours

Paul T

Man, really sorry to hear about the loss of your pet and family member. Last week we lost our little 15-year old barn cat, Tilly. It can really rip you up.

My prayers are with you.

Don , when you here things like this it sure pulls you from your mondane problems and issues to what is really important ! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Take care, Jim

Don-

Praying, praying, praying for all...

Sorry to hear this, Don. Hang in there.

-Kevin

Sorry to hear that life is kicking your a$$ at the moment, but I'm sure that this is temporary. Keep your chin up!

Don,
Sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

John

Very bad news, sorry to hear it! I'll hope you get some positive news about your wife...

Life certainly has a way of kicking you when you're down sometimes. Sorry to hear about your dog and your wife. Hope things go well for your wife. Keep your head up.

My prayers are with you during this troubled time. May God comfort you and your family.