Sorry to hear about you not flying this Chuck. There are a lot of things to go through on the list, but they make sense, and as others have stated they are normal for that type of rocket. Logistics for getting a large rocket away get quite onerous, including the paperwork. If you work through the list and get things done you could quite likely fly the bird. Personally I wouldn't rush it, it is a hobby that we do for enjoyment after all.
As for the first line on the list, it can be argued that you might have had a slow year and not launched much. It could be argued that you have a fantastic support team and mentors who will be assisting with the relevant stages of the prep. There are lots of ways of making relevant statements to get you across the line.
I would really like to see you fly this after all the work you and the team has put into it.
FYI, I would recommend a book called "Crucial Conversations", by Switzler, Grenny, and McMillan. It is a good easy read.