what kind of kids would do this

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Yeah, parents can do only so much. "So much" is a lot and ought to be enough to prevent this, in most kids, but it won't always be.

And it's widely shown to be true that corporal (or capital) punishment is a poor deterrent. People don't think to themselves "It'd be fun to wreck those train models, but I guess it's not worth the risk." What they think is "Hey, look at the nerd stuff. Let's wreck it!" Whether they can't or just don't consider the consequence for the victims, they won't consider the consequences for themselves either; they just act.

It'd be very satisfying to see them convicted and sentenced to flogging, but it would also be both ineffective and immoral. Helping with the rebuilding of the train display and also cleaning up or repairing other vandalism around the town. Getting paid minimum wage, all of which is paid as reparation to the club, until a predetermined amount of money is reached. Three lessons are taught, and one hopes learned:
  1. A moment of "fun" actually breaks real things.
  2. Money is not so easy to earn and shouldn't be wasted. (Which is why it's work until the dept is paid rather than fora set number of hours. It amounts to the same thing arithmetically, but I hope it sends a different message.)
  3. Hard work is hard.
Sadly, "Actions have consequences" is a lesson that won't be learned if it hasn't been already. Not until they grow up.

Your list is correct, but doesn’t reflect the single most important thing, the empathy that must be developed, usually by parental example, so that children understand and even anticipate and avoid the hurt their actions may cause others.
 
Compassion, sympathy, generous behavior, civilized disposition. That absolutely does not come for free with purchase of belly button.
Perhaps ultimately what these kids need (not what they DESERVE) is some good mentors who can teach them that they can live up to being good, productive, and HAPPY human beings. Their current track is not likely to result in any of those three. Yeah, I know, I also believe in the tooth fairy........
 
Mentorship can have a huge impact on a kid, and an adult for that matter. Alas it takes time and there aren't many adults willing to make the sacrifice. For those that do, well done! I'm not mentoring any kids currently but do mentor several young adults in my vocational field.
 
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