I may come to regret this, but I'll chime in...I've got a "bit" of experience with this.
Delta III (twice),
Redstone (twice), a
Pershing on a Q, and I'm not sure what all else. I was the main instigator on all of these, and Pat G built all of our motors except 1.
Edit: As a friend reminds me, the Safety Rocket. A lovely CATO 2.3 seconds into the burn.
Not all worked perfectly. Projects like this are
not trivial undertakings.
Based on what you're giving for dimensions, you're building a BDR - Big Dumb Rocket. Go find yourself some
quality 1/4" plywood - baltic birch is your best choice, but if you can find something else that's truly good quality, it'll work. Two layers of that with a layer of 6oz fiberglass in between. Trust me, it's plenty strong enough for what you're building.
If you have a router, you can make a jig to cut all the centering rings you need. Paying a custom woodworker to do it is possible, but you're going to need lots of rings and you can build your own jig (and own a nice router) for a
lot less. Source 3/4" baltic birch plywood, and make your load bearing rings from that and any other rings that are just alignment from 1/4" plywood.
Trying to make a 30" coupler that will reliably separate is difficult at best. Plus if you're using sonotube, it's
very humidity sensitive and prone to jamming because of that. We went 100% with flat plates at the joints and used explosive bolts to split them apart. They never failed us.
Lance is 100% correct that any project like this is a 1-off. We did the Delta III first and it was a huge learning experience. From there, we built the Redstone next and refined our build approach. All of our large projects were built the same way and one key component is that we built an internal load-bearing structure with the tube being removable and being nothing more than an aerodynamic fairing. Our rocket would've flown if we left the tube off.
How big is your team and how big is your budget? You're going to be spending a chunk of change on this. The launch pad alone is an undertaking and an investment.
You also have to think about logistics. You are going to spend quality time out at the pad. You're going to need a crew to do so and a plan for how to get your rocket vertical. You're talking a
lot of weight. If you don't have a dedicated crew of 6 to 8 people who are going to help build, transport, prep, etc, you're asking for frustration. Those need to be 6 to 8 people who can spend a
lot of time together without bickering. Design by Committee will be the death of your group and your project.
-Kevin