Hmm. When I say, or think, "Pilot 'chute," I am picturing it attached to a nosecone and freebag, used to deploy the main. This I size to descend at--or slightly faster than-- the main assembly descent rate.
If you mean drogue (which, given the context, it sounds like you might), I'd shoot for ~75FPS to start --given that weight, maybe an 18" or 24" elliptical, and see how it goes from there...
Later!
--Coop