Try Testors Metalizer Sealer over silver paint. It's also a lacquer, but doesn't affect the shine too much. It does tone down really shiny silver a bit.
I've had just about every model I coated with Dullcoat yellow, but as Sandman said, it could be because the coat was too thick, or because I sprayed when the humidity was too high. I've switched to acrylic overcoats, Future and Microscale flat and satin. You can airbrush all of these without thinning and clean up with Windex.
White enamels can yellow; I've been sanding down an Interceptor clone that went yellow almost immediately after a thick coat of Testors gloss white from a can. If you are airbrushing, you can add a couple drops of blue to white to prevent yellowing.
Drew Tomko