Not just junior high for me, more like 5th through 9th grade (physically) and thankfully much sparser making fun of me until I finished high school. I was never athletic enough to be able to hit someone and make them stop (they just hit back much harder), and the teachers did nothing to help - even going so far as to still do nothing while they watched other kids beat me up. Most of the taunting in high school was because I was so nerdy and withdrawn from everyone (because I'm supposed to just 'get over' hating the people who made my life a living hell when I was a kid, right???)
Oh man this sounds familiar... it's EXACTLY what happened to me growing up.
I was constantly bullied and an outcast in school from elementary school on. My parents were verbally and physically abusive at home, and my grandfather taught me "don't fight back, turn the other cheek" as a kid, so it got worse as time went on. When he died I was 13 and within two years was running the family farms, as Dad was working 60 hours a week for my mom to blow all the money, to the point the power or phone would often be turned off for lack of payment. There were several times in that 15-16 year old range that I nearly committed suicide-- once had the gun to my temple. Backed out and went on.
I sorta sprouted when I was about 16 and got bigger than just about everyone else and was strong as a bull from farm work, muscled up pretty good (I was never athletic or competitive and absolutely HATED sports, since the dumb jocks are the biggest bullies and I was one of the "smart kids", smart enough I could make A's to C's in school without even trying, so that's what I did-- I HATED school with a passion). Things got a little better then, because I guess they started figuring if I snapped they'd probably end up in intensive care... My junior year I won the Texas State Tractor Mechanics Contest and got a scholarship to UTI, which was something NOBODY from our Podunk school had EVER done, and that got me a little respect, which helped. My senior year wasn't too bad at all... I was FFA Treasurer and I heard they even tried to make me class historian, which I absolutely refused... after being treated like sh!t by these people for 11.5 years, it was too late to try to "make it up to me" now... and I didn't want fair-weather friends who suddenly thought I was cool because I was the best FFA mechanic in the state, either... I just sorta kept my distance... Had a couple "buddies" in FFA but not any real close "friends". I still don't, really. I've always been a loner, and its been my experience that "friends" are usually just people who want stuff from you, so I don't even care to make "friends"... I'm perfectly fine with "buddies" and "friendly acquaintances", but I don't want "close friends" who know all my business and come over anytime or want stuff...
Like you, my teachers were absolutely useless when it came to stopping bullying... they would intentionally turn a blind eye, so they didn't have to do anything about it. Heck they weren't even supportive-- wouldn't even commiserate... just "suck it up, cupcake" sort of attitude or thought it was funny. I guess it did make me tough, though... nowdays I'll help "the other guy" out if I can, but I don't particularly care about other folks... I'm sorta like "if I can help, okay, if not, oh well..." I'm much more sensitive to folks who can't help themselves, than for folks who do stupid stuff and are idiots-- I have NO compassion for idiots whatsoever...
When I drove the bus I absolutely forbade bullying and did everything in my power to make sure it didn't go on... probably not perfect but I tried my absolute best to stop/prevent it. Probably part of the reason I got canned... This Podunk dump seems to think bullying is a rather fun sport.
When my own daughter started school, I took a completely different tack with her... We don't pick fights, we don't bully... If we have a problem with someone bullying, we go to the teacher with it FIRST and try to get them to take care of it... BUT if they don't, IF trouble comes our way or someone thinks they can bully us, we hit hard, fast, and don't let up til they're on the ground, and deal with the consequences later... "Better to sit in ISS for a few days for beating the living SH!T out of a bully and them (and everyone else) learning NOT to mess with you, than to put up with a lifetime of bullying." If the school don't like it, they can choke on it. They had their chance to fix it and didn't.
I guess it's a good thing I was born when I was... if I'd been 20 years later or had a different mindset, I'd probably be one of those bullied kids that took a gun to school and blew about half the bullying turds away... oh the humanity! Don't get me wrong, I don't condone that sort of thing, but I DO understand how kids can be driven to such extremes that they simply snap and can't take it anymore, and decide to go out fighting...
Not right, but it happens...
Personally I think teachers and school administrators who are too lazy, self-absorbed, or just plain think it's funny and won't stop bullying by punks are just about the sorriest excuses for humans there are... right down there with kiddie sex abusers IMHO... although I've "forgiven", I sure can't forget, and there's a lot of people roaming around this town that I frankly wouldn't pee on them if they were on fire... they don't deserve the help.
Later! OL JR