Thanks everybody. We appreciate it.
Funeral was yesterday and half the town showed up. My FIL (who passed 11 years ago before my wife and I met) was a vol. fireman and local mechanic for MANY years, Masonic Grand Master and did a lot of volunteer chicken frys and fish frys for the local organizations, and was a WWII engineer on B-29's and was also instrumental in the formation of the Bell Museum (Bell of Bell Aircraft fame was born in Mentone, Indiana, and lived a good part of his childhood here). The firemen came to Eula's viewing in uniform and on a firetruck, which was REALLY nice.
Eula worked in the local Church of Christ and did a lot of volunteer work, her ladies' sewing club knitted a lot of hats for cancer patients. A collection of some 40 hats she had made for the children's cancer hospice was on display. She was active in the Legion Auxiliary and had been an election deputy in years past. She was 81. She had suffered from what was diagnosed as severe psoriasis for the last five years or so. Turns out it WASN'T psoriasis, but a very rare (and incurable) form of skin cancer that is virtually identical in symptomology to psoriasis and can only be diagnosed properly by skin cultures in the lab, usually by a lab tech that specifically knows what to look for (most doctors assume it's psoriasis). Even had she known, chemo would only have delayed the inevitable, as eventually it WILL develop into a more pernicious form of skin cancer. Had Eula taken chemo, it would only have delayed a recurrence by at most a year.
SO, take precautions in the sun, and if you have a skin problem make sure you go to a very knowledgeable and THOROUGH skin doctor! It wouldn't have made MUCH difference in Eula's case; she had a very full life, and her kids and grandkids were with her when she passed; in fact things turned out about as good as they possibly could considering the circumstances. BUT, if knowledge of the situation helps someone else, well, I'm sure Eula would be very pleased indeed!
Yall take care and thanks again for all the well wishes and prayers. Planning to return to Texas over the weekend-- somebody has to drive those kids to school!
Later! OL JR