A pyrotechnic device like the Archtype rocketry cutter can cinch the zip tie down very tightly so one could have a drogue at the apex of the main chute that extends out of the burrito bag. The tight cinch holds the main in place even with the pull on the drogue. Once the cutter fires, the "drogue" can act as a pilot chute that assists in pulling the main out of the burrito.
You make good points.
It is important to appreciate a few of things when rigging Chute Release:
1. The job of chute release is to hold the chute closed as it flaps around on the way down
2. The only load that should be on the band is holding the parachute together
3. The only load on the tether should be the weight of Chute Release
Chute Release is NOT in the load chain of your parachute <-> rocket.
If you mount a drogue (not that I think it's necessary), my current advice is tie it to the shock cord below the parachute. I have not experimented with a drogue tied to the top of the parachute. That configuration would "load" the parachute that Chute Release is trying to hold closed.
I'm not an uber-expert on parachutes (let me be the first to admit). My first day with Chute Release at a LUNAR launch at Moffitt Field a couple of weekends ago, both of my chutes got stuck in my rockets, and I ruined the first two Chute Release prototypes on concrete lawn darts.
But what I've seen on my flights here the last week are that if you roll a nice tight chute with the cords inside, Chute Release will hold it rolled up nicely (no need to wrap the cords to make a nice bundle, CR will do that). In that way, you've got a nice tight bundle that if mounted close to the nosecone will always get dragged out when the nosecone pops out. And it tumbles cleanly, and releases nicely, and inflates within about 50 feet of your set altitude.
It's really pretty fun to watch, I must say.
P.S. Here's a rigging video, including ground test.
[video=youtube;G9jlOs5R13g]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9jlOs5R13g[/video]