For added thrills, don't just plug your PC hardware into the mains. Go for the
direct approach.
However, unlike some people, I'm neither homicidal nor suicidal. The cable is
quite safe.
You can just about see one leg of a resistor through the hole in the plug. This little device doubles up as an anti-static protector and a way of scaring visitors.
Meanwhile, back to the original question, and I'd I'd agree with Daedalus - either use a different type of connector, or have the male on the box, preferably shrouded, and the female on the cable. It's not just Darwin you need to consider - Murphy also has a say in these matters...
Quickmatch is fine for us in the UK, but I believe it requires a licence in the US.
My own controller has a 12V sealed lead-acid battery, no relay, and the ability to connect to a clip whip using bullet connectors. It will fire 4 igniters reliably. More than that and I prefer to use Quickmatch anyway, not least to avoid having to worry about a short somewhere among so many igniters in close proximity!